Wema Sepetu step aside!
(What the hell was going in that video though?). There is so much more finesse and technique to kissing than what you’ve been taught to believe. Kissing is an art and should be treated as such. These people out here looking like a vacuum cleaner trying to attack and eat you, should cease and desist and also just read some of the suggestion below.
1. Don’t lead with the tongue
Unless you are a snake, whatever you do keep your tongue to yourself until things get hot and heavy. There is nothing that will give your man goose bumps than being attackd by a stiff tongue struggling to take up oxygen. Queen, just stop, take a deep breathe and approach with the lips first …phew!
2. Don’t go too fast
Jamaneni this is not the kissing olympics, there will be no medals for people who do it the fastest. Slow down Ma’am, where are you going? Is there somewhere else you ought to be and surely what could be more important than kissing your guy right now? Take it slow and soft. Build up the tension and then go in for the kiss.
3. Spread the love
Kissing on the lips is cool but have you tried kissing him somewhere else? While making out is great, and there are some other very obvious things you can do with your lips, there are plenty of places to kiss that aren’t necessarily intuitive. There’s no reason to keep your kisses to just the lips. Try other erogenous zones like the neck and ears.
4. Pay attention to body language
Is your bae currently staring at a football game and yelling instructions at the screen? Why would you kiss him then? A kiss is something that requires your full attention. Study your man’s body language. Is he relaxed, smiling and maintaining eye contact. Go for it. Is he crossing his arms and looking moody? Leave. That. Man. Alone.
Kissing is one of the great joys in life. If you’re good at, then keeping him attracted to you gets even easier because lots of sensual kissing is the precursor to having a great sex life (wink wink!). Now go forth and kiss the hell out of that man!