Be with the love that you need not the love that you want
You will meet a lot of time wasters in your life and this is coming from someone who can write a novel on heartbreak. It is not at all worth it getting into a relationship chasing what you want rather than what you need because you open yourself up to loving Mr. Wrong and thus missing out on the right kind of love because you’re too invested in the wrong kind.
Here are my top three reasons on why you should need to ditch Mr. Wrong and wait for Mr. Right:
1. Life is about building an empire
You need to be in a relationship where you’re both invested in creating something bigger than just the both of you. You need to build him up as he builds you up, if this is not of your love then you’re not going to grow as individuals and in the long run, you will just end up stunting each other’s growth.
Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth.
2. Grow into being a woman
This is your time to work on developing yourself, it’s the time to love you, its the time to study, to party and just enjoy finding you. If you date to young you will more than likely outgrow your relationship for it’s inevitable you will change as a person. It is better to focus on investing in a relationship when you are sure of your needs, your sure of the direction your taking in life and most importantly the ideal partner to have as you walk along the path you call life.
Don’t be a woman that needs a man but a woman that a man needs.
3. You deserve the type of right of love
When you’re young the time wasters you meet along the way can make you doubt your worth and that is the worst thing you can ever let happen because it means you have handed over your power and robbed yourself of ever believing you’re worthy of genuine love. However, when you take time before getting into a relationship you understand your own value and by doing so you will not accept anything less than you are.
I am not a one in a million kind of girl but a once in a lifetime kind of woman.
Take your time, don’t be in a rush for when you let time play its role it will reward you with what is real and true.