Come to papa!
Let’s be real ladies, some of us when it comes to the bedroom and basically everything that involves sex, gets you feeling some type of way. Especially, when you and ya man share the same fantasies and craziness. Although, there are just a few extreme things some men obsess over within and outside the bedroom. I kinda narrowed them down for you.
1. Simon says Take the lead girl. .
They want you to take the bull by the balls. . and I mean literally . . So many men hate initiating sex all the time. They want you to be the dominatrix once in a while. He gets even more turned on when you’re both in it. They really want you to hint subtly that you’re in the mood. So put on your heels or whatever, and give the man what he’s asking for.
2. Throw in a compliment or two
In reality, women love compliments. A man wants to hear how good he was in bed. . a compliment from the Mrs. , boosts his ego and confidence, in knowing that he did and is doing the deed pretty pretty well. . When we always assume it’s women who thrive on compliments, men do too. . So tell him how you love it when he flips you over into Doggy position. . or whatever it is you guys do . . wink . .
3. Hush hush baby. It’s Silence of the man. . .
Men aren’t good multitaskers as women are and so respect it if he goes mute during sex. Some men, when concentrating on reaching climax tend to get caught up in the moment and at this point they probably want you to go silent too. Some need intense concentration just before climax. Some men, don’t like it when you’re all out screaming ” Give me more..”. . some just like it when your moans are a tad bit low. .
4. And i’ll name you…..
Some men, secretly love it when you give their D a name like ‘Mighty D’ or call them things like ‘D-addy ’. It plays into how they see themselves in the bedroom – a bit of a sexpert. And that you see it too.
5. Man D’own
Don’t be too upfront if they’re not up and running. Most men hate it when you want to have a serious chat (even though you’re trying to be as understanding and caring) about them not being able to keep him up. Or are unable to get it up in the first place. They’d much rather keep it chilled at that moment. And talk about it at a later time and not when they see failure in their mind.
6. Anal anyone?
uhm……. consider his anal plea..SOME confess they’d secretly love a little ‘fingertip butt-mulation’ either during foreplay or full sex…okay….. Suggest you can tease his area by slipping a condom on your finger..apparently it gives men mega-powerful orgasms and straight guys are waking up to this.
I’m a bit speechless especially at #6. . But hey, we all have different sexual fantasies we’d like to tell our mans right?. . So let’s get digging! . . Lol pun intended..