You can be so attracted to a guy in an instant, maintain the attraction and even get to the point of getting to know the guy . . . and then BOOM!, he just does some things that pisses you the F off and you’re like ” Dude, really? Did you just. . I mean. . I can’t even” and you suddenly get turned off and you completely lose interest in him? Girl I got you covered with these red flags you should watch out for in a Kenyan man so as to save yourself the time of finding it out later on. You’ll thank me later.
1. Terrible pick up lines and courting skills
Like bruh? A man can see you for the very first time and he looks really attractive and everything. You immediately exchange niceties and pleasantries and instead of maintaining eye contact, this guy blatantly stares at your body. He can’t even maintain eye contact, yet it’s the first time he’s meeting you. Like seriously?
2. Team mafisi
What’s with this whole team mafisi nonsense? These men are led by their D’s and not their minds. You see a woman who’s dressed well and is beautiful and all and there you a go, ogling and salivating over her as if you’ve never seen a woman before. She posts a picture and there you are, tagging your fellow ‘mafisians’ with the tongue emoji. Okay so what are you trying? Do you really think that this will get her attention? nah. .In fact, what will happen is that you will become nonexistent.
3. Fail to dress for the occasion and lack etiquette
Women love to dress well and they would want their fellow men, to do the same. She wants to be represented by a smart man. Men, your women love a man who knows how to dress for the occasion. If it’s a dinner date or a lunch date, don’t show up in jeans and a tee shirt and expect that we will be amused.
4. Catch feelings fast and acts like a big baby
Like whatchu catching feelings for? A man who catches feelings and behaves in a feminine way, is a no no. Why you getting mad though? If your woman doesn’t want to do something, understand her situation. She could be dealing with things. If she doesn’t want to give you pussy, she really doesn’t want to give it to you. A man who gets mad and irked by the smallest of things, isn’t a man a woman wants to be around.
Every woman loves a man who can pull of a romantic gesture. It doesn’t matter what it is, but it’s the thought that counts. She doesn’t have to remind you to spoil her and show appreciation from time to time. A woman wants to feel wanted and loved.
6. Boys posing as men
The ‘boys’ who text you asking what you’re up to and what you’re doing. When you reply” I’m about to take a shower.” He replies “, without me?” I mean, really nigga? Is me you? is you me? GTFO with that. Who made these boys? They walk around pretending to be men in person, but when nobody is around, they show their true colors? but why? what did we do to deserve such boys in our midst? women like men who are who they say they are, and not boys who parade themselves like men, but behave like little boys running around with their little dongs.
We are getting tired of these turn offs. Some of these Kenyan men really need to do better. I’m not saying that all Kenyan men possess the above qualities, but for those that do, they need a reboot. Maybe then, that will trigger the man in them. LOL.