It’s time to face your enemy, the “gag reflex”
The most important aspect of learning how to give head without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control. While this isn’t an issue for the roughly 37% of women who are fortunate enough to not have a gag reflex, if you do have a gag reflex, then this section will teach you how to get it under control.
1. Use your tongue
A little tongue action can go a long way. If you don’t feel like going too far down for fear of gagging, focus on flicking or swirling your tongue over the tip of his penis. Luckily, the head of a guy’s penis has many nerve endings so this is a great place to give attention to.
2. Get it all wet
A penis isn’t naturally a slip ‘n’ slide so you have to get it all wet yourself. If you let some saliva drip out of your mouth to lubricate his penis, you can let your hand do more work without having to put too much of his penis in your mouth.
3. Breathe out when you go down
If you are attempting to deep throat or at least go a lot further down than usual, breathing is key. Taking a deep breath in and breathing out as you go down is one of the greatest skills I have utilized to prevent myself from gagging. Never feel obligated to mimic porn and deep throat, seeing as pornography is honestly just a performance, but if it’s a challenge you want to take on, these three tips might do the trick!
A bonus tip: Listen to him and communicate with him. Make sure to always be attentive to how he reacts to the different things you try. Not every guy likes the same things, so talking about what he likes or dislikes is helpful so you can both have a great time!