We as women have a blunt way of expressing our feelings and making our point known.
Not men, no. There are certain things we tell ourselves for reassurance when a guy is behaving a bit iffy as much as we know deep down it’s probably a lie. Here’s what he’ll say verses what he really means.
1. I’m not ready for a committed relationship.
Believe him when he tells you this and stop wasting your time. He means he’s probably seeing other girls and he for real doesn’t want to commit to you because he’s probably waiting for the next potential partner.
2. I didn’t have my phone with me.
He did have his phone with him, it was probably in his hand the whole time, but he just did’t want to talk to you because you would have been a bother.
3. I’m going to leave her for you.
No, he’s going to string you on as long as he can before you actually realize that he’s not leaving her and pack up instead.
4. I don’t know why she always calls me, we are not even friends.
Sadly, some of us fall for this one. Ask yourself why she keeps calling him and they have no relationship whatsoever (whether it’s a friendship or something more) and if they are friends, why he would feel the need to lie about it…
5. I’m not really looking for a relationship right now.
With YOU hunnie, he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. These are the ones you’ll see in relationships a month later and wonder what happened.
6. Sex isn’t the only thing I want from you babe.
If this was the case why does it seem like the only thing you two are doing? Boy bye.
7. I’ll call you…
8. I’m going to propose to you soon.
If you’ve been dating for a really long time and he hasn’t popped the question, chances are your title will be ‘forever girlfriend’.